Sobering Memories of Cuba

Live Free Cuba?

An opinion piece about racism in Cuba in Sunday’s New York Times brought back memories of my visit there in 2003. I traveled with Global Exchange for its Salsa and Afro-Cuban Dance Tour, where I learned Afro-Cuban dance, drumming and salsa from professional dancers and drummers. I think it was probably one of the most immersive and eye-opening trips I’ve ever taken for the very reasons that Mr. Roberto Zurbano states in his piece. He talks of how Afro-Cubans have less property and money than their white countrymen and face pervasive racism.

Classic car outside Callejón de Hamel, an alley known for its Afro-Cuban jam sessions.

Sadly, I witnessed this first hand one night in Havana when a few of us went to Hotel Florida, known for its salsa dance parties. There was a group of well-dressed black men standing outside trying to get into the hotel. When I say well dressed, I mean these guys were clean as a whistle, modeling jackets and shoes that could have been in the pages of GQ.  My friend Ruth and I asked what was going on and they explained that they couldn’t get in because they were black. It sounded absolutely ridiculous to my ears in a country where almost everyone is black and they seem to embrace and celebrate their African heritage. How could Southern-style racism be at work in a place as brown as this? But there they were. They explained that the only way they could get in was if they were with a tourist, so Ruth and I told the hotel gatekeepers that the guys were with us and they reluctantly let them inside. They were thrilled and we all salsa danced until we couldn’t anymore.

These gentlemen would be welcome at my dance party.

I heard more stories of discrimination from new-found friends at Callejón de Hamel, the Sunday afternoon hangout spot popular with Afro-Cubans and curious visitors. One dreadlocked Cuban who spoke impeccable English with a British accent told me just how hard it is to survive. His name was Franjoles and he spoke of people being afraid to talk about what life is really like for fear of repercussions. I had a similar conversation with a taxi driver who revealed that he’d left his wife and children in Santiago de Cuba to make more money in tourism in Havana. He was a trained engineer, but he said his salary wasn’t enough to make ends meet. Franjoles said that government rations last only five days, if that, and on top of this, black men face constant harassment by the police, often stopped for no reason.

My new Cuban friends who revealed the real Cuba.

It was downright disheartening to hear in a country where revolution was supposed to even the odds for the poor and downtrodden. Now, it seems race determines who gets what scraps are left. I hope, along with Mr. Zurbano, that when economic change arrives, true equality will prevail for Cubans of all races. Everyone deserves that, especially the warm, hard-working people who were kind enough to share their secret truths with a curious stranger.

More of the real Cuba…

Our Afro Cuban dance instructors, Margarita and Jaime.
Havana’s Malecon, or seawall.
Me and Ché

Photo Flashback: The Pope is From Argentina. I Went to Argentina!

Exactly one month after traveling to Argentina with STG Tours, the Vatican selected its first Argentinian pontiff, Pope Francis I. How perfectly relevant. Seems like a great reason to reminisce on a great trip with a few good pics. These aren’t mine, though. I’m sharing my fellow travelers’ favorite photos from Argentina. It’s cool seeing the trip and the country from perspectives as varied as the people on our trip. Enjoy!

Sheneekra took this photo at the Familia Zuccardi Winery in Mendoza. “The wineries in Argentina are a perfect blend of art and wine. I really gained a better appreciate for artistry for wine making while in Argentina”
Here’s another photo from Sheneekra. “I enjoyed the show at Estancia Santa Susana. Dancing was amazing.”
This is another from Sheekra. It’s a photo of her with Kenitra, her roommate during the trip. “Kenny and I at Parsai Olive Oil plant. I’m glad she told me about the trip. I had a great time.”
This photo was taken by Kenitra. During our group trip, we had a couple of days to wander on our own. These beautiful shuttered windows must have caught her eye on one of those days.
Kenitra and Sheneekra visited Argentina’s museum of modern art, MALBA, during their free day in Buenos Aires. This is a lovely shot of Sheneekra in one of the exhibits.
Gia didn’t bring a camera on this trip, but she got this great shot of racing gauchos on horseback at Santa Susana with her smartphone.
Gia took this picture on our side trip to Montevideo in Uruguay at its monument La Carreta. She’s kind of photobombing our trip leader, Gai, in the background. Gia, Gai. Gai, Gia. Cute, right?
Presleith fell in love with Colonia on her side trip to Uruguay. It’s an hour-long boat ride from Buenos Aires and the city is a UNESCO World Heritage site. She and fellow traveler, Carmen, climbed to the top of this lighthouse, even though Presleith is deathly afraid of heights.
Presleith found some of the most interesting places to pose for a picture on this trip. Here she is in Colonia at an old fort.
Our fearless trip leader, Gai, took in a Bocca Juniors soccer match while in Buenos Aires. She and fellow traveler, Floyd, survived the crush of soccer-crazed fans.
Gai got this picture with her cell phone during our cooking class at La Tupina in Mendoza. This scrambled egg dish may be one of the best tapas we made and ate that day. The presentation was the coolest, too. Scrambled eggs served in its shell. Yum.

My Top 6 Photos to Celebrate International Women’s Day

There are some pretty sad statistics out there about the disparities between the lives of boys and girls; women and men. The World Bank reports that, in developing countries, an estimated 3.9 million women die unnecessarily each year. Many are never born because of preference given to boy children in some societies. So, it’s particularly inspiring to see the women around the world  that do make it, and survive against incredible odds. As Beyoncé sang, “Who runs the world? Girls.” Here’s my tribute to the girls of the world in photos:

Girls in a Fulani village in Senegal in 2006. They were making a game of mashing millet. The Fulani are a nomadic, herding tribe spread out across West Africa. Typically, Fulani men have more than one wife.
Who doesn’t like lip gloss? I packed lip gloss and candy to give to kids on my trip to Senegal and Gambia in 2006 and these girls loved it. I think I’m going to do this on more of my trips.
I visited Cantagalo, a favela, or, as they prefer, a communidad, in Rio. We were watching a young street band, or bloco, perform when I got a pic with this girl. (See that boy photobombing us?)
While traveling in Morocco in 2007, we visited an all girls school where the students taught me how to style my Hijab.
When I was in Sri Lanka last year, I loved seeing groups of girls walk to school in their uniforms with braids swinging.
The fiercest sales girls you’ll ever meet are in Cambodia at Angkor Wat. This girl laid it on thick. She told me that I looked like Michelle Obama and that she liked my hair. I bought a bunch of bangles from her.
I was strolling down a street in Montevideo, Uruguay when these girls, having a snack, started to curiously follow. They were shy at first, but then they posed for me.

 

So, let’s hear it for the girls around the world and the girls that want to travel the world this International Women’s Day. Speaking of girls that want to travel the world, check out The Passport Party Project, one blogger’s mission to arm young girls with passports and empower them with a sense of wander. If you know a girl that wants to travel, get her started here. It just might change the world.